Ok, I have done the online thing for about 6 or 7 years off and on and I am still single. I am slowly understanding that with my medical illness, I am no competition for a healthy woman of my age…I simply can’t keep up. I am looking for a middle aged man to settle down with. Most of these men want to travel and are more active in their daily lives. My match would be over 65, and I am not trying to date a senior citizen. I find it odd that some men prefer to date women with medical issues or disabilities. That to me is a red flag. I am at a loss, except to think that I may just have to face reality…I may be single forever. And at this point honestly, I am kind of ok with that.